Show Me The Funny!!!!

A NOTE FOR MY FWENDZ...

People come into your life for a REASON,
A SEASON or A LIFETIME. When you know which
one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time,this person will say or
do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been
met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime
lessons, things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant
Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season
or a lifetime.

Happily Ever After..

I was asked a question.While talking to a close friend,we were talking abt Valentine's Day.Few friends & I decided if we cud get together & maybe catch a movie & den have fun at Escape Theme Park.There's was a prob..I dun hav a date while my friends are attached.But i dun mind goin alone.So,i decided to ask my tis close friend.But he cant confirm it due to some werk commitment.That led to something he said.He said wat if i got a bf by Valentine's Day?Ya,like that gonna happen.He said miracle cud happen.
U see,miracles dun like me.I dun have miracles coming in & out of my life.Den he said if a guy ask me to be his gf on Valentine's Day?Another miracle joke.Yeah,in the movies..Life wud be sp perfectly romantic.U fall in love,den that special sumone goes down on one knee & a perfectly romantic nite & propose.Hell yeah,who wudnt want that.I wud..But,,its juz all fantasy.That wat tv will make u believe.
When i was a young girl,my dream was to study very hard.Grow up to be a very successful person.Fall in love with the man of my dreams & lived happily ever after.That's the problem with dreaming too much.U will forget wat ur dreams is & den slowly it turns into a nightmare.
If i cud turn back time,i wud!Unfortunately,i can't.Sometimes,the thing is just infront of you but u juz dun realised it.U are too blinded by sumthing else to notice that wat u r looking for,has always been infront of u.
Life has not alwys been good to me.Sometimes i wonder why.Well,i didnt get to noe Karma 1st but i tink she juz a bitch tryin to mess wit me.
Anyways,sometimes i sit & wonder,how's my life gonna turn to.My dreams are more realistic now.Tryin not to fantasize to much.
Cause Dreams can jus Hurt & disappoint you..

MA PICZ :)

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i dont think i can deal with this anymore no love,
just agony and pain the pain makes me want to walk out the door
staying much longer will drive me insane
i realy have the desire to kill mine is in danger
even if i lie
but i would be the victim of this trill
i surelly will be the next one to die simple,
sweet just a very young woman love again
i will never really feel i cant go through this kind of pain again
i do not have the rapid urge to heal today
is going to be my real end always remember me, your good friend

Victimization of Girls..

Victimization of girls and women is an ongoing problem in our society. Despite the advances women have made in the workplace, in education and in economic development, there is a growing sector of girls and women who are isolated from these successes and who have difficulty accessing necessary information and services. Without these services, the children they bear and raise are likely to perpetuate the cycle of abuse and victimization.
iolence and harassment are continuous problems in schools and in the community, yet adults often view it as a rite of passage, and harmless, or they feel helpless to intervene. Most girls who are involved with juvenile justice report ongoing assault, domestic violence or abuse in their home and community. Some girls even choose to be arrested, finding the juvenile justice system a safe haven away from the abuse. Violence against women can often be subtle and covert, as when a partner prevents a girl from having access to the phone or isolates her from friends. The following are quotes from girls about their experiences with harassment and dating violence.


Long-term effects of victimization
We live in a society rife with beliefs and images that degrade and brutalize women. A popular video game awards extra points to players who rape and then beat a prostitute. Music videos feature fully dressed men surrounded by numerous highly sexualized and nearly nude women. Popular media offers limited and formulaic images of women and girls that look remarkably doll-like—straight long hair (preferably blond), full pouty lips, big eyes and a busty chest atop a remarkably otherwise boyish figure. Is it any wonder, then, that 76 percent of boys and 56 percent of girls surveyed believed that forced sex was acceptable under some conditions?


Need to reduce prevalence or seriousness of victimization

There is an urgent need for intervention to reduce the prevalence and seriousness of victimization and violence. Victimization experiences often have profoundly negative mental and physical health outcomes, including substance abuse, early sexual activity and pregnancy, long-lasting mental health issues and reliance on government social service programs. Prevention and early intervention activities have the potential to reduce long-term use of mental health treatment, substance abuse intervention and social service programs, to improve the lives of females and to move the culture toward a more peaceful model of interaction and relationships. Substantial service gaps exist, and programs are inadequately evaluated.

Those born in the Year of the Rat are frank and sincere and very disarming.
Sociable, diligent and frugal, the Rat is only generous towards those for whom he or she feels great affection.
So if you receive an expensive gift from the Rat, this means you are really respected.
Despite the Rat's frugal nature, he or she always has many admirers and exudes great charm. The Rat seems reserved but this is not the case. He or she is never as calm as it seems.
The Rat gets very agitated but manages to maintain self-control and this leads to great popularity and many friends.
Vivacious, cheery and sociable, the Rat is also prone to being super critical or punctilious. But on the whole, the Rat loves parties and people.
The Rat loves belonging to exclusive circles and has a close group of friends.
Being an extrovert, the Rat enjoys taking part in social events.
The Rat really loves his or her friends, co-workers and relatives to the point of getting mixed up in their lives.
However we never know what the Rat is really thinking and the Rat's capacity for love is linked to his or her shrewdness and love of money.
An employer who belongs to the Sign of the Rat wants his or her team to be active and eat a healthy diet; he or she is simply concerned for their well being and will visit them when sick. However when it's time to give a pay rise, the Rat procrastinates and is a little mean.
It's hard to get a Rat to part with his or her money.

Circle

You know it's funny

seems everytime I, try to forget about you

my feelings bring you back in

it's crazy

'cause I got somebody else

and you got somebody else

but you and I both know

how it really it is

but still you know what I'm saying b?

Ran across the picture you took of me

And you crossed my mind

I still hear you saying you love me

When I close my eyes

If I didn't go away for school then where would we be?

Probably still together and somewhere happy.

If I'm supposed to be moved on to new relationships darling why are you still haunting me?

They say

if you love something let it go

and if it comes back then that's how you know

I got to the stop light then I made 4 rights

now I'm back where I started

and you're back in my life.

The further I go the closer I get back to you

I say I moved on till I'm reminded of you

can somebody help me

help me get out of this circle

get out of this circle?

21,January,2008.Monday

Went for sum interview today..Gotta werk 2mr..Like lazy but,,wad to do..Hehe..
Today,,i had 2 dress like so damn formal,,kinda cool..Walk ard like sum executive..Kinda cool..Den mit my mum for diiner at civic cinter,,she dress like wanna go market lak!!Touching rite..?Hehe..
She has to go for make over la.. :P

i wanna be

Tis song Is sung by Chris Brown..
Tis sing describe abt how i feel abt a certain sum1..

I wanna Be...

Look.. I know we've been friends for a while now.. But, I just feel like I can confess
to you.. It's gonna be hard but.. Alright here it goes...


Imagine that the pillow that you cried on was my chest
and the tissue that you wiped your face with was my hand
Girl imagine if you needed advice
about some other guy, I'm the one that comes to mind.
Not tryna hear you tell nobody that I'm just a friend
just trying to make sure I'm that body that you call your man
and anytime you need a shoulder, It shows not a day, but what I'm
tryna' say is, I wanna be...


The last number you call late at night [said i wanna be]
the first one that you you dial when you open your eyes
Wanna be the one you run to, wanna be one that ain't gon hurt you I wanna be yea, I wanna be yea..
Be the man that get you girl jealous, be the guy that's shuttin' down all the fellas..
whatever you need, girl it's all on me..
So go tell your friend or your lover, girl, I wanna be...


Would it be cool, would you mind if I called you my boo,
what if the next whip you is pushin'was the one I bought for you.
Can I be the one that meets your pops and take your mama shoppin', be the only one they like.
Have you thought about it, wait, really thought about it?
Maybe you should take some time call your girls and talk about it, [yeah.]
Cuz' I done already made up my mind, don't need no more time to know if I wanna be with you, I wanna be...


Put me on your screen saver
all over your myspace and
make me one of your top favorites, that's where I wanna be...
The one you cryin' for, [stand up for and fightin' for]
wanna be your good, bad, love, hate girlll..

Cross my heart hope to die, on everything that's good,
I'mma do you right, show you right, get this understood.
Cross my heart hope to die, on everything that goes good, I'mma do you right show you right, get this understood...

Love...What Does it Reali Means..?

Love?Does any of you know what it means?
People assume that love is a great feeling.
Well,its not true.Love cause more hurt than happiness.
Sometimes i wonder why love exists at all?
I just understand.People will always use love as an excuse to cover up their selfish ways.
They have smear the good name of Love.Love now is just hate by me.
I never knew how is it to feel Love.Just the feeling.Let alone if a person Love me.Friends Love & Pure Love is different.
I seen many people in my life,are caught up by this Love.I'm glad to them who have succeed.
But my heart goes out who are hurt By Love.
We are the victim.I am.
God knows how i have been longing to have a serious relationship.Just to be Loved.
Guess we are living in the world full of selfish & heartless people.
Its just so sad.
Something that is so Beautiful,Could turn out So Ugly :(

19,January 2008.Saturday.

Well,its been awhile since i last wrote..A lot has happen to me since the last tile i wrote.
Events that sometimes i look back & wonder;"Wat the hell were u tinkin..?"
Experiences made us either a better or worse person.
I also wonder what have i achieve last year?
I started of the year,well,can say,not a gd start.
Well,u can say,i made another mistake again.I let another person handle my heart but unfortunately,they didnt take care of it.
But,,one thing i am grateful for is that,i am blessed with Wonderful friends.I would not have make it without them.
Also,my family.My family.Just that,i love my mum so much.I am so glad that god gave me a wonderful,caring yet weird mother :)
I sometimes wonder what lies ahead.Tomorrow,next week,next month.Will i get married?Will i ever find true love?
Questions that i myself dun noe how to answer.
We will just see then..